Friday, February 28, 2025

POEMarium by Dr NK Sharma - Winning Poem of the Month - Feb 2025. "Poetry is nearer to vital truth than history." - Plato

 POEMarium is pleased to display Manmohan Rajbanshi's review of Umasree Raghunath's winning entry in Quote Poem-73.

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#QUOTE POEM -73
"Poetry is nearer to vital truth than history." - Plato
In the silence of words the truth unfolds
Not in the pages where history is told.
Poetry whispers a voice in the night
A deeper meaning is in a hidden light.
History may speak of deeds and past
But poetry captures truths that last
It breathes in emotions beyond the facts
In the heart’s raw verses as the soul’s impacts.
The past may be written recorded and done
But poetry reveals the truth second to none.
A timeless reflection as vivid and clear
Closer to truth than history we hold dear.
© Umasree Raghunath




REVIEW*
A Timeless Reflection: Unveiling the Power of Poetry :
In the realm of human expression, few forms have captivated the essence of existence as profoundly as poetry. With its unique ability to transcend time and touch the deepest recesses of the human heart, poetry has long been revered as a powerful medium for conveying truth, emotions and the complexities of the human experience.
Umasree Raghunath's thought-provoking poem on the quote "Poetry is nearer to vital truth than history" is a masterful exploration of this very idea inviting readers to contemplate the enduring significance of poetry in uncovering the vital truths of life.
Umasree Raghunath's winning entry is a masterful exploration of the human experience delving into the realms of truth, history and the transformative power of poetry. The poem begins with a poignant statement-" In the silence of words , the truth unfolds." This line beautifully captures the idea that truth is often found in the unspoken, the quiet moments of introspection.
The following lines "Not in the pages where history is told / Poetry whispers a voice in the night " highlight the distinction between history and poetry. While history may record events, poetry reveals the deeper truths, the emotions and the essence of the human experience.
The line "A deeper meaning is in a hidden light" is particularly evocative, suggesting that poetry illuminates the subtle often overlooked aspects of life.
The poem also touches on the idea that history while important is limited in its ability to capture the fullness of human experience. The poet so eloquently puts it : "History may speak of deeds and past / But poetry captures truths that last."
The final stanzas are a powerful testament to the enduring nature of poetry "The past may be written recorded and done / But poetry reveals the truth second to none./ A timeless reflection as vivid and clear ,/ Closer to truth than history we hold dear."
Throughout the poem, Umasree Raghunath's language is lyrical, expressive and precise, making this a truly unforgettable read.
In conclusion, Umasree Raghunath's poem serves as a poignant reminder of the transformative power of poetry to capture the essence of human experience. Through its thought-provoking exploration of the relationship between poetry, history and truth , this poem invites readers to contemplate the significance of poetry in uncovering the vital truths of life. As we reflect on the timeless wisdom conveyed in these lines, may we be inspired to cherish the beauty, depth and enduring power of poetry.

Monday, February 10, 2025

Wings of Time (A Haibun) - A mother's reflection of purpose, change, transformation and managing empty nest syndrome!

As I sit to eat, she used to give that shrill cry...making me jerk and just be with her. She never wanted me to leave her sight, walking behind me like a puppy to the bathroom as I shower. She used to hold tight to my legs as I got ready to work and cry out of her lungs, when I pack my travel bags to onsite. From being a young mom in early twenties, to now being a sick woman in mid-forties, my journey of life revolved around her. My thoughts, dreams and aspirations were built around her progress and existence. Slowly, the world changed. Her life too. She no longer wants my presence. My words echoed like a noise. My advices chocked her to core. My very being becoming a burden to her free fly. The mother bird has to let her young one go. That is only nature. She has to now look after her purpose, her aspirations around her own life...no longer intertwined with mine. The vacuum of empty nest syndrome is real. It can be redefining the way you lived. It has to repurpose your life. Is this not the time to actually be Selfish, like she now tells you are one! Selfish being focusing on your health, wealth and happiness. No strings attached. But the threads of life are finely interlinked that you have to be careful...not to burn bridges or bend to break beyond .... this is not a mother's cry. This is the nature's way of life. As weave into the tapestry of life. After all, life is a vicious circle! In fact, a nice roller-coaster circle of ride. Tighten your seat belts and enjoy the ride!

The Empty Nest

She once clung tight a little hand in mine,
A shadow trailing with her laughter divine.
Her cries would echo as I walked away,
Begging me, pleading, "Mom, please stay!"

Through sleepless nights and endless days,
Her world was mine in countless ways.
Dreams I wove with love so deep,
A bond unbroken and a promise to keep.

But time, the thief, so silent and sly,
Stole those moments as years flew by.
Her wings grew strong and her voice so bold,
She sought the world let go her hold.

My words, once wisdom, now just noise,
My presence faded in her joys.
No longer needed, left behind,
A silent ache, a restless mind.

Yet nature whispers, soft but true,
A mother’s love must bid adieu.
Not chains, but wind beneath her flight,
Let her soar to chase the light.

Now is my time to stand, to be,
To find the self I used to see.
Not lost, not broken, just reborn,
A life my own, no more forlorn.

The nest is empty, but skies are wide,
A journey waits, with time as guide.
So tighten your belt, embrace the tide,
Life’s a circle, a wondrous ride!

 

Wings of Time (A Haibun)

She followed me everywhere—her tiny feet pattering behind mine, her arms wrapped around my legs, her cries piercing through my heart whenever I left. Her world revolved around me, and mine around her. From the morning rush to bedtime stories, from school lunches to teenage dreams—I was always there, always needed. But time is a river, never pausing, always flowing.

Then, one day, she no longer turned back to look for me. My words, once her comfort, became a burden. My presence, once her anchor, became a chain. I watched as she broke free, soaring into a sky I once painted for her. My hands, which held her steady, now trembled with emptiness. The nest is silent, yet my heart still echoes with her laughter.

Letting go is love, too. So, I turn inward, embracing the solitude, the new beginning. The wind whispers—this is not an end, just another flight.

fallen autumn leaves—
branches stretch to touch the sky
without looking back

 

Dedicated to All Mothers

who sacrifice, who bravely fight, who give everything they can!

To their children

Dedicated to all Children

who dare to dream and fly high with wind beneath their wings!

and also stay connected, rooted in love and grace 



Sunday, February 9, 2025

The Facts and Feelings behind Silent Good byes!

 There’s a unique kind of pain in a goodbye that’s never spoken. It’s not the parting itself that lingers but the silence that follows—the questions left unanswered, the moments unresolved. These farewells, steeped in ambiguity, leave us suspended in a haze of emotions, caught between what was and what could have been. The absence of explanation becomes its own ache, an invisible weight that follows us. Yet within this discomfort lies an invitation—not just to grieve but to grow.



Life rarely gives us the closure we crave. The human heart longs for certainty, for neat conclusions that allow us to move forward without hesitation. We seek reasons, hoping that clarity will somehow ease the pain. But when someone leaves without explanation, the narrative is left open-ended, and the mind races to fill the void. We replay conversations, reexamine memories, and question ourselves endlessly. Was it something we said or didn’t say? Was it avoidable? Could things have been different?
Yet the truth is, life isn’t always meant to be understood in the moment. Not every story comes with a tidy resolution. Some chapters end abruptly, forcing us to grapple with ambiguity. And while this can feel like a betrayal of our need for understanding, it also holds a profound lesson: the opportunity to cultivate peace within ourselves, even when the world around us feels unresolved.
Every goodbye—spoken or unspoken—has something to teach us. The ones without explanation, though the most painful, are also the most transformative. They force us to confront the limits of our control. They teach us patience, resilience, and the difficult art of letting go. In their silence, they challenge us to create our own closure, to find healing not in the answers we seek but in the strength we discover within.
Thinkers and philosophers have long explored this idea of finding meaning in the face of uncertainty. The Stoics, for example, remind us that while we cannot control the actions of others, we can control our response to them. Marcus Aurelius, in his meditations, speaks of anchoring oneself in the present, finding tranquility within rather than searching for it in the external world. Seneca, too, reflects on the danger of expectations, reminding us that much of our suffering stems not from what happens to us but from how tightly we hold on to the way we believe life should be.
Unanswered goodbyes force us into this space of introspection. They strip away our illusions of control and remind us that closure is not something we can demand from others. True closure comes from within. It’s not about understanding why someone left or what might have gone wrong—it’s about learning to release the need for those answers. It’s about finding peace in the present, despite the shadows of the past.
This process isn’t easy. It requires us to sit with discomfort, to confront our pain without the solace of resolution. It demands that we practice forgiveness—not necessarily for the one who left, but for ourselves. Forgiveness for the moments we doubted our worth, for the times we replayed what we could not change. It asks us to extend compassion inward, to remind ourselves that our value is not determined by someone else’s choice to stay or go.
Over time, we come to understand that some stories are meant to remain unfinished. Their lessons unfold gradually, teaching us about our capacity for strength and grace. The silence of an unspoken goodbye, painful as it is, becomes a canvas for growth. It challenges us to redefine our idea of closure—not as an external resolution but as an internal state of acceptance.
We learn to trust ourselves again. To believe in our ability to navigate the uncertainties of life. Relationships, while beautiful and enriching, are not the sole source of our identity or strength. An unanswered goodbye pushes us to look inward, to discover that we are enough as we are, whole even without the explanations we once thought we needed.
The pain of an unresolved farewell doesn’t vanish overnight. It ebbs and flows, teaching us patience along the way. But with time, we find that its edges soften. The unanswered questions lose their urgency, and the silence becomes less a wound and more a space—a space where we can choose to create meaning, to cultivate resilience, and to honor our own journey.
So what do we take from these silent endings? Perhaps the most important lesson is this: we are not defined by what we’ve lost but by how we rise after losing it. The strength to move forward without answers, the courage to heal without resolution—these are quiet victories, testaments to the depth of our resilience.
Ask yourself: What does it mean to let go of the need for closure? What would it look like to trust in your ability to find peace, even in the midst of uncertainty? The answers to these questions are not easy, but they are profoundly freeing. They remind us that we are the authors of our own healing, the creators of our own meaning.
Yes, some goodbyes can be painful beyond words. But they are also transformative. They challenge us to let go, to grow, and to find strength in the silence. And in doing so, they reveal the quiet beauty of our own resilience—a beauty that no unanswered question or unresolved farewell can ever take away.

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Jabel Ali - Hindu Temple - Dubai UAE - A beautiful temple blessings on the New Year Dawn 2025

Happy New Year ...Auspicious beginnings for a progressive year ahead with good health, wealth and happiness and loads of peace. May Almighty shower his finest blessings to us all this great year 2025
Thanks to family and friends for making the start a memorable one... special thanks to my cousin brother Suresh n family for being there for us as we embraced the new journey with Almighty blessings this year. Awesome visit to Jabel Ali Hindu Temple and also watching fireworks n drone show at Global village







Situated in Jebel Ali Village, Dubai, UAE, within the "Worship Village," which also houses churches and other places of worship. Opened in October 2022, a historic addition to the religious landscape of the UAE. It is the second Hindu temple in Dubai after the Shiv Mandir in Bur Dubai.
    • Architecture:
      • Stunning white marble façade with intricate carvings.
      • Interior features idols of deities, traditional Hindu temple decor, and a prayer hall.
      • Blend of modern and traditional designs.
    • Facilities:
      • Spacious prayer hall for rituals and gatherings.
      • Dedicated areas for community services and cultural events.
      • A vegetarian dining area (prasad or food distribution).
    • Deities: Includes idols of major Hindu gods such as Lord Krishna, Lord Shiva, Lord Ram, Goddess Durga, and others.
    • Community Engagement:
      • Open to people of all faiths, promoting inclusivity and harmony.
      • Regular cultural programs, festivals (e.g., Diwali, Navratri), and religious ceremonies.
    • Accessibility:
      • Located in proximity to Jebel Ali Metro Station and public transport.
      • Ample parking facilities for visitors.
    • Cultural Harmony: Reflects Dubai's commitment to multicultural coexistence and respect for all religions.
    • Visiting Hours: Typically open from morning to evening, with specific hours for darshan (viewing of deities).
    • Management: Operated under the guidance of the Indian community in Dubai, in collaboration with the UAE government.
  • Saturday, December 28, 2024

    Power of Positivity - A Poem dedicated to the transforming year 2024

     With a prayer of positivity

    A sound becomes a song
    A move becomes a dance
    A smile becomes a humour
    Wearing a positive armour
    Mind becomes a meditation centre
    Life becomes a beautiful mentor
    With the power of positivity
    Accept things that we didn’t want
    Things we didn’t ask, won’t stop
    What ever happens, is for our best
    In HIM, leave things in sheer trust
    Fear not a tomorrow, that is unknown
    Regret not for a day, that is already gone
    With the passion of positivity
    Believe in the wildest dreams
    Dare to take the boldest steps
    Aim higher like an Eagle among stars
    Chasing away doubts and fears
    Be sure to find a way, in the mundane maze
    Life will for sure, will do its amaze
    With a perspective of positivity
    Its not important what happens in life
    It matters how you respond to knifes
    That deter you, pester you and shakeup
    The things and people who break you up
    It matters how resilient you are, to show up
    Being strong, how you face it and wake up!
    With the pleasantness of positivity
    You realize that stronger the seed
    It will plant up and raise in the desert sands
    In worst of situations too, it will survive to find
    With the positive mind amidst every grind
    Goal can be achieved with strong will
    Making life’s goals in every aspect fulfil!
    -Umasree Raghunath



    Saturday, November 16, 2024

    FINANCIAL LITERACY QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

    1. WHAT IS FINANCIAL FREEDOM?
      Financial freedom in India means having enough income (from investments, rent, pensions, or business) to meet living expenses without relying on a salaried job, allowing you to live on your own terms.

    2. HOW DOES ONE ACHIEVE FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE?
      You can achieve financial independence by building assets such as real estate, mutual fund SIPs, stocks, or fixed deposits that generate regular income and cover your monthly needs.

    3. WHAT IS A FINANCIAL GOAL?
      A financial goal in India could include saving for a child’s education (via Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana), buying a house, planning for a wedding, or building a retirement corpus through NPS or EPF.

    4. WHAT IS FINANCIAL SECURITY?
      Financial security means having enough savings and insurance (like term insurance or health insurance) to handle emergencies, retire peacefully, and fulfill key life goals.

    5. HOW DOES DEBT IMPACT FINANCIAL FREEDOM?
      Loans with high EMIs (like personal loans or credit card debt) can reduce your ability to save and invest, slowing down your path to financial freedom.

    6. WHAT IS THE ROLE OF SAVINGS IN FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE?
      Savings (in PPF, recurring deposits, or mutual funds) create a financial cushion that supports investment growth and handles uncertainties.

    7. WHAT IS NET WORTH?
      Your net worth is the total of your assets (property, gold, mutual funds) minus liabilities (home loans, personal loans, credit card dues).

    8. WHAT IS THE 50/30/20 BUDGETING RULE?
      Allocate 50% of your income to needs (EMIs, groceries), 30% to wants (dining out, shopping), and 20% to savings and investments (SIPs, RD, PPF).

    9. WHAT IS PASSIVE INCOME?
      Passive income in India can include rental income, dividends from shares, interest from FDs, or affiliate marketing online.

    10. HOW CAN INVESTING HELP ACHIEVE FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE?
      Systematic investing in equity mutual funds, PPF, and stocks can build long-term wealth and generate income that replaces your salary.

    11. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ACTIVE AND PASSIVE INCOME?
      Active income comes from your job or business, while passive income flows from investments like REITs, mutual funds, or rental properties.

    12. WHAT IS THE 4% RULE IN RETIREMENT PLANNING?
      The 4% rule suggests that withdrawing 4% annually from your retirement corpus (like NPS or MF portfolio) is sustainable for lifelong income.

    13. WHAT IS AN EMERGENCY FUND AND WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?
      An emergency fund (3-6 months’ expenses in a liquid FD, savings account, or liquid fund) helps you handle job loss, medical bills, or unexpected expenses.

    14. WHAT IS MULTIPLE STREAMS OF INCOME?
      Having income from a job, freelance work, real estate, dividends, or digital content creation adds financial stability and growth.

    15. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE FINANCIALLY SECURED?
      Being financially secure means having stable income, insurance coverage, and enough savings to handle life goals and emergencies without stress.

    16. WHAT IS A DEBT-TO-INCOME RATIO?
      This ratio compares your monthly debt (EMIs) to your monthly income. Ideally, it should be under 40% to ensure good financial health.

    17. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO PAY OFF DEBT QUICKLY?
      Use the snowball method (clearing smallest debts first) or avalanche method (paying highest-interest debt first) to reduce debt faster.

    18. WHAT IS THE ROLE OF CREDIT IN FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE?
      Good credit (CIBIL score of 750+) helps you get better loan rates and easier approvals for home or vehicle loans.

    19. HOW DOES THE STOCK MARKET HELP ACHIEVE FINANCIAL FREEDOM?
      By investing in Indian equities through direct stocks or mutual funds, you can grow your wealth over time with compounding returns.

    20. WHAT IS GOOD DEBT VS. BAD DEBT?
      Good debt (like a home loan with tax benefits) can create appreciating assets; bad debt (like credit card loans) leads to high interest outflows.

    21. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO LIVE BELOW YOUR MEANS?
      Spend less than you earn. This habit ensures surplus for saving, investing, and planning for the future.

    22. WHAT IS THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A FINANCIAL PLAN?
      A financial plan gives you clarity on your income, expenses, and goals (like children’s education, home purchase, or retirement), and helps you stay disciplined.

    23. HOW CAN YOU BUILD A STRONG CREDIT HISTORY?
      Always repay EMIs and credit card bills on time, maintain a healthy credit mix, and keep credit utilization under 30%.

    24. WHAT IS A 529 PLAN AND ITS INDIAN ALTERNATIVE?
      India doesn’t have 529 plans, but you can invest in Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana, PPF, or ELSS for tax-saving education planning.

    25. WHAT IS A FINANCIAL EMERGENCY?
      A sudden expense like job loss, medical emergency, or car breakdown that can disrupt your financial stability.

    26. WHAT IS A STOCK DIVIDEND?
      It is a share of profits distributed by Indian companies to shareholders, often reinvested for compounding returns.

    27. WHAT IS A BUDGETING SYSTEM AND WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?
      Budgeting helps you track income and expenses, prioritize savings, and avoid overspending—crucial for middle-class families.

    28. HOW CAN I START INVESTING IF I’M A BEGINNER?
      Start a SIP in mutual funds through platforms like Groww, Zerodha Coin, or Paytm Money. Begin small, be consistent.

    29. WHAT IS A TAX-ADVANTAGED ACCOUNT IN INDIA?
      Instruments like PPF, NPS, EPF, and ELSS offer tax deductions under Section 80C or 80CCD, reducing your taxable income.

    30. WHAT IS A ROTH IRA AND ITS INDIAN EQUIVALENT?
      A Roth IRA is similar to ELSS mutual funds, where gains after a certain period (1+ years) are taxed minimally or are tax-free up to ₹1 lakh per annum.

    31. HOW CAN I REDUCE MY TAX LIABILITY IN INDIA?
      Invest under Section 80C, buy health insurance (Section 80D), invest in NPS (Section 80CCD), and avail HRA and standard deductions.

    32. WHAT IS AN EMERGENCY FUND AND HOW MUCH SHOULD I HAVE?
      Maintain 3–6 months of living expenses in a savings account or liquid fund to handle emergencies.

    33. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIQUID AND ILLIQUID ASSETS?
      Liquid assets: cash, savings, mutual funds; Illiquid: land, property, gold jewellery.

    34. WHAT IS COMPOUNDING AND HOW DOES IT HELP?
      In compounding, your returns earn more returns. SIPs in equity funds over 10–15 years can significantly multiply your investment.

    35. WHAT IS A GOOD INVESTMENT STRATEGY IN INDIA?
      Diversify across mutual funds, gold, stocks, FDs, and real estate. Invest based on goals and risk appetite.

    36. HOW CAN I IMPROVE MY FINANCIAL LITERACY?
      Follow Indian finance blogs (like JagoInvestor, Cleartax), watch YouTube finance channels, read RBI and SEBI publications.

    37. WHAT IS A LIQUIDITY EMERGENCY FUND?
      Keep funds in a liquid mutual fund or high-interest savings account for immediate access in emergencies.

    38. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO LIVE A FRUGAL LIFE?
      Spending mindfully, avoiding wasteful expenses, and prioritizing savings and investments for long-term peace.

    39. WHAT IS A WEALTH-BUILDING STRATEGY?
      Save early, invest regularly, minimize debt, and increase income sources (freelance, rent, side hustle).

    40. WHAT IS A HEALTH SAVINGS ACCOUNT (HSA) IN INDIA?
      India doesn’t have HSAs, but health insurance with critical illness cover and health riders serve similar purposes.

    41. WHAT IS THE IMPORTANCE OF RETIREMENT PLANNING IN INDIA?
      With limited social security, you need your own corpus via EPF, NPS, mutual funds, and pensions to retire comfortably.

    42. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO HAVE A FINANCIAL MINDSET?
      Being disciplined, future-focused, avoiding impulsive spending, and being consistent with savings and investments.

    43. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FIXED AND VARIABLE EXPENSES?
      Fixed: rent, EMI, tuition; Variable: groceries, fuel, entertainment.

    44. WHAT IS A PENSION PLAN IN INDIA?
      LIC Jeevan Akshay or NPS Tier I are popular pension schemes providing post-retirement income.

    45. WHAT IS A 401(K) LOAN AND INDIAN EQUIVALENT?
      Similar to taking a loan against your EPF in India for specific purposes like housing or education.

    46. WHAT IS A HIGH-YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT IN INDIA?
      Banks like IDFC First, AU Small Finance, and Kotak offer savings accounts with higher interest rates (up to 7%).

    47. HOW CAN I AVOID COMMON FINANCIAL MISTAKES?
      Don’t rely only on FDs. Avoid unnecessary loans, track expenses, invest early, and insure adequately.

    48. HOW DOES SPENDING LESS HELP ACHIEVE FREEDOM?
      Lower expenses = higher savings = more investment = faster path to financial freedom.

    49. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE FINANCIALLY FREE?
      Having assets that generate enough income so you don’t need to depend on a monthly salary.

    50. WHAT IS A GOOD SAVINGS RATE IN INDIA?
      Aim to save at least 30% of your income—split across emergency funds, SIPs, insurance, and retirement.

    Monday, November 11, 2024

    SreeStories.... Inspirational Leader... Sri Keshav Koorapati

    #SreeStories #1

    #LeadershipStories #Positivitiy #PeopleWhoInfluence #ParuTales
    #Learning #GrowthMindset #EmbracingChange
    #LearningFromLeaders #EmpoweringWomen #Support
    #UmasreeRaghunath #MotivationalStories #Inspiration #SpreadingHope #Gratitude


    One lazy Sunday afternoon, my cousin pulled us to the local Indian Restaurant, that was brimming with people waiting for their turn to get in. Erode Amman Mess in Deira was hugely crowded, and after 45 minutes of waiting, we stepped it to our table to have that amazing “Spicy meal”. That’s when I heard someone calling my name, and I was truly surprised, delighted and equally excited to meet him. Keshav Koorapati


    The man who unknowingly helped me rebuild my life when life was absolutely frightening. 

    Way back in 2003, almost 2 decades ago, when the then IT Service Provider major Manmar Technologies lost the deal with GE Medical and was heading towards closure, I had to pack my bags and find an opportunity in Bangalore leaving behind my 5-year-old child with her grandparents who reluctantly agreed to take care. Those were the toughest beginnings when my husband was trying to find a job, and in search of something to keep him busy, moved to Delhi. The small nest of three people was put to the wildest test. My little family was shattered with the financial challenges and battling health – both physical, mental and financial. Social health was unknown then.

    This didn’t work for long. I was getting restless traveling every week home to be with my daughter. It was draining me physically and mentally. My husband almost slipped into depression. Once playful and happy child became dull, unhealthy falling often sick and longing. I still remember her waiting with the paste and brush every Saturday morning in the verandah waiting for me to come home. If I missed the last bus on Friday night after my UK shift to take from Electronic City or rush to Majestic, I had to take whatever way possible, sometimes reach home late on Saturday. Once, when I reached around 12 noon, my heart broke seeing her stubbornly waiting for me without having anything from morning. That day I decided, I must get back to my nest. This time all three of us. But I was not sure how it would be possible.

    Thanks to my father-in-law’s friend Sri Vummidiars Muralidharan Uncle, who took me to meet Keshav for the first time, introducing me as his adopted daughter, and with a non-negotiable obligation to help me. Keshav smiled. He asked for my resume and informed that they are hiring for Investment Banking Backoffice Operations and will forward my resume to the hiring team. He was the Vice President of the ABN AMRO Bank ACES at that time. If he would have wanted, I could have gotten directly hired. Instead, he just showed me the way. He did not influence the hiring process. He did not recommend. He followed his integrity and ethics and just matched a requirement to a possible candidate.

    I went to the psychometric assessment and aptitude test held at Guru Nanak college. I was super scared to see more than 200 candidates attending the written test that day. When you are desperate, you tend to get more nervous, and I was no different. When I got the call from HR to come for the interview after a week, I still didn’t believe I could make it. I came down to Chennai to attend the interview. They realized that I am in the Process Lead role in DSL Software (Deutsche Bank) and offered me as Tester in their IT division. That was the first time, I am getting into the IT space, after working in IT and ITES companies in Service and Process areas.    
     
    Probably two things happened. Keshav knowing me personally (his uncle and my father-in-law were childhood friends) did not influence my hiring or selection to the team in ACES. Secondly, I probably would fit better in the Infrastructure and Custom Engineering division. A beginning that took me to IT majors in life later.

    From being a Tester, in a very short period of time, I became a Global Test Manager in ABN AMRO ACES, winning Star in Focus Award and several other awards. I had the opportunity to work with amazing people at work, across the globe. I was at the helm of affairs managing the testing team during 19 successful Releases migrating more than 25 countries to the Global Trade Platform. Working along with vendors that included people from Infosys, Maverick Systems and PSI Data Systems, the learning was immense. We also had domain experts – retired banking professionals who guided us in our delivery and management. Triaging and working over the weekends, managing various shifts, some months starting day as early as 6 am at work, handling people and projects, I have to say that the ACES experience transformed me to a leader. It set the platform for my IT career for the next 2 decades.  

    KEY TAKEAWAYS from Keshav as a leader:

    · Actions speak louder than words
    · Inspiration by the professionalism they show, integrity they maintain, ethics that they follow. They don’t preach. But lead by example
    · Influence people. By their composure at work, managing conflict and problem solving with utmost wisdom and knowledge
    · Managing teams - With empathy, care and concern. They build workplaces with such focus on the client requirements, technology changes, sustainability initiatives, and people welfare.
    · Building Professional work places - Deliver on time, client-focused, consistent work delivery and cross-border cultural exchange with ease
    · Embracing Change - Leaders like Keshav embrace change with utmost gratitude, self-esteem and motivation to others.

    Though, I did not get a chance to be a direct report to Keshav, I will always be indebted to the learnings I took from him as a Leader. I will always remember with gratitude the small act of his, that gave a big change in my life. I will always remember him as the “Influential Leader” who supported many like me to grow in life and be their best.





    Tuesday, October 22, 2024

    New skills for 2025. Skilling is biggest currency,

    Essential skills to learn for 2025, based on emerging trends, technological advancements, and evolving workplace demands:



    1. Digital Literacy

    As technology continues to dominate every aspect of life, understanding how to navigate and leverage digital platforms, tools, and software will be crucial. This includes skills like cloud computing, data management, and using various tech solutions.


    2. Data Analysis and Interpretation

    With data being generated at an unprecedented rate, the ability to analyze and interpret data to make informed decisions is highly valuable. Skills in tools like Excel, Power BI, Tableau, and even basic programming for data analysis (Python, R) are in demand.


    3. Artificial Intelligence and Machine Learning

    AI and machine learning are shaping the future of many industries, from healthcare to finance. Understanding how these technologies work and their applications will be a game-changer for those looking to stay relevant.


    4. Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

    As automation increases, soft skills like emotional intelligence, empathy, communication, and conflict resolution will differentiate humans from machines. Being able to manage emotions and navigate social complexities is key in leadership and teamwork.


    5. Cybersecurity

    As cyber threats become more sophisticated, knowing how to protect digital assets and data is critical. Cybersecurity skills will be highly sought after, whether in IT or business roles.


    6. Coding and Programming

    Learning how to code, even at a basic level, can open doors across industries. Whether it’s Python, Java, JavaScript, or another language, understanding programming will give you an edge in today’s tech-driven world.


    7. Remote Work Management

    With remote and hybrid work becoming more prevalent, skills in managing remote teams, virtual communication, and productivity tools (like Zoom, Slack, Asana) are essential to ensure effective collaboration.


    8. Design Thinking and Creativity

    In a world driven by innovation, the ability to think outside the box and approach problems with creativity will be a highly prized skill. Design thinking encourages innovative problem-solving through empathy, ideation, and experimentation.


    9. Financial Literacy

    Understanding personal finance, investment, cryptocurrency, and financial markets is becoming essential for long-term stability. Skills like budgeting, investing, and understanding market trends will help both personally and professionally.


    10. Sustainability Practices

    With the world moving towards more sustainable practices, knowledge of sustainability, green technologies, and how businesses can reduce their carbon footprint will be a key asset in many fields.


    11. Adaptability and Learning Agility

    The ability to quickly adapt to new tools, technologies, and work environments is increasingly important. Being a lifelong learner, willing to upskill and reskill as needed, will be crucial for long-term career success.


    12. Cultural Competency and Diversity Awareness

    As workplaces become more global and diverse, the ability to work with people from different cultural backgrounds, respecting diversity, and fostering inclusion will be vital for collaboration and leadership in the future.


    Mastering these skills will help you stay competitive, flexible, and relevant in an ever-changing world by 2025.

    Saturday, October 5, 2024

    Top 15 sites for Remote Jobs!

    For those looking to work Remotes, here are you 15 top sites that you can look for!



    1. Freelancer (freelancer.com)

    2. Jobspresso (jobspresso.co)

    3. Remote OK (remoteok.com )

    4. Remote4Me (remote4me.com)

    5. SimplyHired (simplyhired.com )

    6. Toptal (toptal.com)

    7. AngelList (angel.co)

    8. NoDesk (nodesk.co)

    9. Upwork (upwork.com)

    10. LinkedIn (linkedin.com)

    11. Remote co (remote.co )

    12. FlexJobs (flexjobs.com)

    13. Pangian (pangian.com )

    14. Remotive (remotive.com)

    15. Remotees (remotees.com)

    Saturday, August 31, 2024

    How toxic work environment can effect your mental health!?!

     A toxic work environment can have profound effects on your mental health, often leading to a range of negative emotions and psychological issues. Here's how it can impact you:



    1. Increased Stress and Anxiety: Constantly dealing with unreasonable demands, unclear expectations, or hostile interactions can heighten stress levels, leading to chronic anxiety.

    2. Burnout: Continuous exposure to a negative environment can drain your energy, enthusiasm, and passion for work, eventually leading to burnout. This condition can make you feel exhausted, detached, and unproductive.

    3. Depression: The persistent negativity in a toxic workplace, such as bullying, harassment, or feeling undervalued, can contribute to feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and depression.

    4. Low Self-Esteem: Criticism without constructive feedback, micromanagement, and lack of recognition can erode your self-confidence and self-worth, making you doubt your abilities.

    5. Emotional Exhaustion: The emotional toll of dealing with a toxic environment can leave you feeling drained and emotionally numb, affecting both your work and personal life.

    6. Sleep Disturbances: The stress and anxiety caused by a toxic workplace can lead to sleep problems, such as insomnia, which in turn exacerbate mental health issues.

    7. Decreased Job Satisfaction: Over time, the negative aspects of the work environment can overshadow any positive experiences, leading to dissatisfaction and a lack of motivation to perform well.

    8. Relationship Strain: The stress from a toxic workplace can spill over into your personal life, straining relationships with family and friends, as you may become irritable, withdrawn, or overly preoccupied with work.

    9. Health Issues: Prolonged exposure to a toxic work environment can also manifest in physical health problems, such as headaches, high blood pressure, and a weakened immune system, which can further impact mental well-being.

    10. Difficulty Concentrating: The ongoing stress and negative atmosphere can make it challenging to focus on tasks, leading to decreased productivity and a sense of frustration.

    Recognizing these effects and seeking support, whether through counseling, speaking with a trusted colleague, or considering a change in your work situation, is essential to protecting your mental health.

    HEALTH is WEALTH

    MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS!!!


    Tuesday, July 2, 2024

    Few things to ponder from a Japanese Research on health ailments !!!

     Japanese surprising research says:



    1. Acidity not only caused by diet errors, but more dominated because of stress.

    2. Hypertension not only caused by too much consumption of salty foods, but mainly because of errors in managing emotions.

    3. Cholesterol is not only caused by fatty foods, but the excessive laziness or sedentary lifestyle is more responsible.

    4. Asthma not only because of the disruption of oxygen supply to lungs, but often sad feelings make lungs unstable.

    5. Diabetes not only because of too much consumption of glucose, but selfish & stubborn attitude disrupts the function of the pancreas.

    6. Kidney stones : .Not only Calcium Oxalate deposits, but pent up emotions and hatred

    7. Spondylitis : not only L4L5 or cervical disorder; but over burdened or too much worries about future

    If we want to be healthy then first 

    1) Fix your Mind

    2) Do regular Exercises, 

    2) Move around, 

    3) Do Prayers

    4) Laugh and make others laugh too.

    5) Make Friends


    These activities will help you to strengthen your soul, mind and body...


    Be Healthy And Enjoy Your Life.👍💐



    Tuesday, June 25, 2024

    Most Useful websites for students in 2024

     


    Here’s a list of 20 useful websites for students in 2024 that can help with studying, productivity, learning, and more:

    1. Khan Academy (khanacademy.org) - Offers free courses on a variety of subjects including math, science, economics, and more.

    2. Coursera (coursera.org) - Provides online courses from top universities and companies worldwide, covering a wide range of topics.

    3. Duolingo (duolingo.com) - A popular platform for learning new languages through interactive exercises.

    4. Grammarly (grammarly.com) - A writing assistant tool that helps with grammar, spelling, and style improvements.

    5. Mendeley (mendeley.com) - A reference manager and academic social network that helps organize research, collaborate online, and discover research.

    6. Quizlet (quizlet.com) - A study app that allows students to create and use flashcards for various subjects to aid in memorization and learning.

    7. Notion (notion.so) - An all-in-one workspace where you can write, plan, collaborate, and get organized.

    8. Microsoft Office 365 Education (education.microsoft.com) - Offers free access to Office apps like Word, Excel, and PowerPoint for students.

    9. Wolfram Alpha (wolframalpha.com) - A computational knowledge engine that can solve math problems, generate graphs, and provide detailed explanations.

    10. edX (edx.org) - Provides free online courses from universities and institutions around the world, with options for certification.

    11. Chegg (chegg.com) - Provides textbook rentals, homework help, online tutoring, and test prep.

    12. TED-Ed (ed.ted.com) - Offers educational videos and lessons across a wide range of subjects, featuring engaging talks from experts.

    13. SparkNotes (sparknotes.com) - A study guide resource that provides summaries and analyses of books, plays, and more.

    14. Evernote (evernote.com) - A note-taking app that helps students organize their notes, tasks, and schedules in one place.

    15. Google Scholar (scholar.google.com) - A freely accessible web search engine that indexes the full text or metadata of scholarly literature.

    16. Codecademy (codecademy.com) - An interactive platform that offers coding classes in various programming languages.

    17. Memrise (memrise.com) - A language learning platform that uses spaced repetition to help with vocabulary retention.

    18. Shmoop (shmoop.com) - Provides study guides, test prep, and online courses, covering a variety of subjects in a fun, engaging way.

    19. Purdue OWL (owl.purdue.edu) - An online writing lab that offers extensive writing resources, including guidelines on formatting and citation.

    20. Khan Academy Kids (learn.khanacademy.org/khan-academy-kids) - An educational app designed for younger students (ages 2-8), offering activities in math, reading, and more.

    These sites should cover a broad spectrum of needs, from academic research to language learning and personal productivity!     These additional resources should further aid students in various aspects of their academic and personal growth.

    Few others that we can also see are

    1. Ted Talks
    2. Studyfy
    3. Healthline
    4. Wired
    5. Bright Knowledge
    6. LifeHack
    7. Gizmode
    8. The Balance Careers
    Go ahead and explore !   World is your playground with the technology to support !

    Monday, May 27, 2024

    Wilted Flower - that touches your soul!


     

    In the garden's quiet breath, a wilted flower lay,

    Petals soft as whispers, turned to dust and grey.

    Once it bloomed in splendour, kissed by morning dew,

    Now it bows in silence, its vibrant days through.

    Memories of sunlight, dance in faded hues,

    A silent testament, to beauty's fleeting muse.

    Roots still cling to earth, where dreams took flight,

    Yet seasons change, and shadows steal the light.

    In its tender sorrow, echoes of the past,

    The wilted flower speaks, a tale that will last.

    In the heart's deep garden, where time's river flows,

    Even wilted flowers, can touch the soul that knows.

    - Umasree Raghunath

    Monday, May 13, 2024

    Poem: You are my heartbeat

     In the rhythm of life, a melody sweet,

    You are my heartbeat, a cadence complete.
    In every pulse, your name softly repeats,
    A symphony of love, where our souls meet.

    Through highs and lows, in joy and strife,
    You are the essence, the pulse of my life.
    With each throb, a whisper, soft and discreet,
    You are my heartbeat, a love so replete.

    In the dance of emotions, a pulsating rhyme,
    You are the reason, the heartbeat of time.
    With every flutter, a story unfolds,
    In the language of pulses, our love molds.

    In sync with the universe, a cosmic feat,
    You are my heartbeat, a love so sweet.
    With every palpitation, a tale to tell,
    In the heart's embrace, where emotions swell.

    Like a constant rhythm, in love's retreat,
    You are my heartbeat, an eternal feat.
    In the quiet chambers where emotions seep,
    You are my rhythm, my heart's heartbeat.

    Through the silence, in the echoes deep,
    You are my heartbeat, in love's keep.
    In the echo of our love, forever complete,
    You are my heartbeat, my soul's heartbeat.