Motivational Speaker - Women and Opportunities in IT and Engineering - At Dhanish Ahmed College of Engineering, Padappai, Chennai on 26.9.2017

As part of the initiative by the Women Empowerment Cell of Dhaanish Ahmed College of Engineering (DACE), Padappai, Chennai, they have initiated a seminar with a representative from EWIT.   Ms. Umasree Raghunath represented EWIT and addressed the Women Students of the College.   Close to 150-200 students have attended this guest lecture session in the mini-auditorium of the College on 26 September 2016. Tuesday  at 11 am.

After initial greetings with Ms. Lalitha, Assistant Professor, Uma met with Mr. Raja, Principal of the college and discussed on the various topics that can be covered in the seminar.

In Uma’s words

I was greeted with the cheerful faces behind the burkhas of the beautiful women on a bright sunny morning at DACE.   I started my address, calling them my friends and I could feel the connection at that moment.   I made it clear to them that this is going to be an interactive session where I expect them to come up with their point of views and questions.   And glad I made that as a point for they proved interactive and interested as we dived deep into various aspects of women empowerment.  I touched upon the various opportunities available to them in the IT world threading the paths of technical growth or management and how they can climb the corporate ladder. 

 I also kept my focus on the women empowerment starting from families and how they can manage their career along with abiding by the traditions of the communities they belong to.   Most of the children were from Muslim community and many of the final year students are already engaged to be married off just after they complete the graduation.   However, my interactions proved that given a chance they will make very good corporate citizens and great managers and leaders.  I gave them tips on how to make themselves stronger and confident with great self-esteem, self-respect and confidence to take decisions, follow the ethics of both their religions and professional environment and dream big.   My message was to think big and dream big as Dr. Abdul Kalam always motivated the students in this angle.  

Many of them expressed their concern that they are studying in various other domains like Petroleum, Manufacturing, Electrical and Electronics and that many of the Campus selection only happens in the IT industry.   I had to tell them how they  can interlink careers with the domain knowledge of their respective fields of engineering into the IT world and how they can contribute provided they decide to take the career path in IT.   I also requested them to confidently try their opportunities in the areas of their engineering like Civil, Mechanical, petroleum, ECE etc as there is strong need for women leaders in the industry as India is marching towards 2020 dream of making India a developed Nation.  

I also touch based on the innovation, cognitive era, the importance of digital world and how to use it appropriately and divert their energies towards innovation and contribution to the society at large.   There were many questions from the students on how they can build careers around this area and also on how best they can grow in the corporates.    After a close to 1 hour session and 30 mins of Q&A, I was happy that few students reached out to be off the dais with the specific questions and to interact with me.   I felt glad that I could make this possible to have a very lively session with the students.  This not only gave a good opportunity to introduce EWIT to the students but also to share our expertise motivating more women to make their career choices with confidence and understanding.  

Behind the pages of 'Simply Being Sidds' - Part 2

This post is a reminiscence of the travels that were part of this journey.  Countless trips to Siddharth's house and he visiting mine, were just a part of the travel.  But there are few travels that will remain deeply close to our hearts in this process and the warmth of the same.  You can ask me? what so big deal to travel when you are involving so many people in your book.   The answer is who are the people involved.  

My visit to Mrs. Usha Ramakrishnan was quite an eye-opener.  She gave me such a great insight into the emotional quotient of the people who are spastic and how we need to focus on the skills that they have instead of trying to make the other inoperative skills to enhance.  She dived deep into how Siddharth was special and how important it was for the system as a whole to be made accessible, acceptable and communicable with the children of special needs.  

Our interviews with Mr. Paul Abraham and Mr.Sandeep Sareen of IndusInd Bank were amazing.   These two leaders focused on how the work places need to be empathizing with the needs and also need through equal challenges to professionals who need little bit of extra arrangements.  What they need is not sympathy but a challenging work environment and equal opportunities to prove themselves.

The first outstation visit was to Bangalore which was an absolutely amazing experience.   The kind of warmth shown by Siddharth's parents-in-laws despite of their financial struggles show that what you need is a big heart and not big pockets.  The kind of comfort and warmth I felt probably I have not got it even at one of the finest hotels in the world.  This was so pure, so humbling and so honest.  

My first visit to Sri Acharya Rakum School of Blind and meeting Guruji was like a surreal experience.   Everything is going on smooth and as if it has all been amply oiled to make the place run on its own.   Children of various abilities,  our 4 legged friends and fishes all lived in such a harmony that you will feel very ashamed to the fact that a people of 4 in a house cant live in such a harmony.   Everyone does their share of contribution,  here disability is just not heard., you can see the place with profound happiness and overwhelming charm that it hold the beauty of humanity at large.   No wonder Chandrakala who was raised in this school has got such a inner beauty in her to manage as a wife in Sidd's life.   To be there that day was a honest blessing to me.  It is a lesson to stop regretting and living the life it gives us to be.

Our next visit was to Professor Nijaguna's house..Sidd's closest relatives.   Here we saw how people can smile and welcome despite the deepest loss and suffering to the physical bodies.   The kind of revelations that we had talking to such an expert adviser like Prof Nijaguna changed the very perspective of writing our book.   

The next outstation visit was to Pondicherry.   I have a special love for this place for the kind of peace that prevails when I visit Mother's Ashram.   Sidd and I had a fantastic bonding during this travel..  We shared so much like friends of life.   We spoke out of our hearts, exchanged warmth, fought for trivial things and argued on few,  agreed to disagree on some aspects and also had good food and travel.   The highlight of our Pondicherry visit is the opportunity to meet Lt Governor Smt. Kiran Bedi.    Kiran Mam'm not only recognized Sidd but also gave us a warm welcome and discussed on our book.   She was so happy and immediately accepted to be part of our book's back cover.  She also gave us a good photo opportunity.  For Sidd, it is not the first time with her.  But to me it was a moment of pride and happiness for Kiran Mam'm is always a great role model to me.

Our errands for editing, to our Publisher Notion Press,  our conversations with so many people, the exchange of emails, were all part and parcel of this book.   I discovered Sidd so much that I really started having my highest regards for him.   The journey of reaching out to million readers was thus began with our travels and talks.......Hope you love reading our book 'Simply Being Sidds'.   Don't forget to drop a line or two of your review to us and also on amazon.com.

Thank you.   Happy Reading

 

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Behind the pages of ‘ Simply Being Sidds!’

I am a small time writer.  I used to write in the simple English I know and about what all impacts my life.  In fact, I had no specific writing goals.  It all started from writing essays in the school for competitions and articles for the school magazines and later on for Women’s era and scribbling what I thought is Poetry.   I had no particular style or direction.  I went on with the wind.  I wrote in classrooms, in trains, in mid of the nights,  early in the morning,  scribbled several poems in my diaries over the years, in the notepads and sticky notes and sometimes even on tissue papers that I could grab.    

Never in my life, I have thought I would write a book for someone, that too as special as Siddharth.   For one, I am not a great writer.  Secondly, my writing only gave meaning to me and to no one else.   Even my blog is in my name, my own self, my own brand with its limited followers who accepted me as a writer..for something or the other, they admire what I share and follow.

Though it was always my urge to help Siddharth in what ever way I can, I never thought I would be part of such a huge responsibility of taking ownership of writing his memoir with him.  When he entrusted that work to me, I was not sure if I could really handle it.  There was a plain canvas in front of me.   Forget about the final picture, even to sketch the draft of it was not easy.   I thought about it deeply.   Though I accepted his invitation to co-author immediately,  it took me a while,  really to be ready for the same.   I discussed on this with my daughter in detail.   I weighed its pros and cons.  I had no expectations.  It is just an opportunity to give back something to a friend who meant a lot in life. 

This is not going to be the first piece of published work.  There were instances where my writings got in print.  I have co-authored with Chennai Bloggers on the book ‘After the floods’ in 2016.   I have several scribbling s of mine in the form of poems in Poem Hunter e-book and hundreds of articles in my blog and other forums.  But this is a different genre.   A totally different expectation and the result is unexpected. 

 

It took me a whole weekend to think within before I met Siddharth for the first time on a Saturday afternoon.   I had a draft in mind, and I came up with the portions of the book, that need to be.  Sidd was over ambitious to achieve the completion in 3 months.  He had a date in March 2017 and later 5 Jun 2017 for the book release.   I promised him 3 hours every week on a Saturday.  And thankfully, I was able to keep up to that promise for several weeks till we got it all completed.   

The journey was not easy.   We laughed together, we cried together,  we fought, we argued, we listened to each other, we met many people, we spoke to several associates and friends.  The meetings were enriching.   The knowledge and learning that came along was phenomenal.  I dived deep into Sidd’s life like no one else could do.  We had our own mischief's,  quite dinners and rough days.   Some days, we couldn’t even write a page.   Sometimes, we did that for hours together without getting tired.   I met and spoke to amazing people in this process.   It was quite a momentum involving so many people in the book.   Each one came forward with so much of happiness.   The kind of response we got was remarkable.  Fantastic experiences. 

Towards the end, after we zeroed on the publisher, getting our sponsor and then editing started.   That’s when my mom needed medical attention and I was pulled into multiple priorities.   Sidd took the job on his shoulders without bothering me much and went ahead with the reviews.  I felt helpless.   He kept motivating me telling that priorities need to be taken care.   

When finally the day, we got a call from Notion Press on 8 Aug 2017, that the book is ready and the first 30 copies are available for authors to review,  Sidd called me with excitement.  I took  a cab and went to the Notion Press and received the box with the 30 books.   I touched it like touching a just delivered baby.   Yes, after 10 months of labor, here is our baby.   How else can we feel about it.

I brought the books to Sidd’s home, we both unwrapped it and touched the books, gently and then started taking pictures with the book and Raghu kept smiling at both of us.   The feeling is incredible.  

As we went ahead marketing our book, and planning the book launches and reaching out to our readers and portals for selling the book, we forgot about the royalty sharing or what we would reap out of it.  The purpose was larger towards inclusion, towards equality, towards accessibility, acceptance, employ-ability.  The expenses were mounting but it didn’t hurt us.   

We wanted the book to reach how many people ever possible.   We wanted to let the dreams of Dr Abdul Kalam shine and we went ahead with marketing, press and print media, social media campaigns, book launches and frequent sharing of information on the book in social media.  

Even if it helps few Siddharths,  even if it inspires mothers like Komala aunty,  if it encourages friends like Umasree and Prasanna to Sidd and even if one normal mainstream school makes the campus accessible to differently abled after reading the book, our very goal and purpose is achieved.   Tears of pain and joy mix when I look back on this journey.   It gave me an extended family.   Sidd’s family accepted me as one among them.   What else you need…  

Raghu and Aish stood as rock solid support to me in this journey,  my otherwise inquisitive mom, encouraged me as I worked every weekend on this project.   It is not the success of the book in terms of numbers that I am looking forward, it is the kind of reach and reforms that this book can bring with thinking process changing in the minds of at least a few. 

Thank you!