Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Detachment….the only way to go

April 7, 2015

Detachment….the only way to go



Bhagavad Gita proclaims with profound teaching
To do our duty and stay detached to outcomes
Going through the journey is our responsibility
Not worrying about the final destination to reach
Though this is tough to practice, it is not impossible
Of course it is difficult to internalize and implement
Trying to evaluate every opportunity to benefit
Is beginning of discomfort in otherwise calm life!

Detach from the past, its own prideful moments
And frustrating situations of pain and anguish
This will simplify life.  It is time to let go! LET GO!
Give away things that you no longer use or need
Forgive people who will not matter days from now
Same time, forgive self for the stupid decisions made
Those impractical sad choices made, irreverent!
Forgive thyself for those irresponsible actions
Realizing the impermanence of this unrealistic life

Life is beautiful as we stop loving things and use people
It is exemplar to love people and use things
This love for people is also impermanent
Things may change, situations may change
Life has to move on, even after people disappear
Stay calm and accept whatever comes on our way
Who can stop the course that Life just takes
We struggle immensely to control our lives
Not realizing how absurd and how more stupid it is
The circle of influence has to be let gone
Neither you can control yours nor of others

Expectations that life gives us all that we want
And fail to understand that this buries ourselves
In self-vested and ruinous entangled emotions
True intelligent living is learning to detach when needed
Just to be honest to self, and letting it go!
Detachment is not a difficult task or impossible
It is just right to be working towards our actions
And stop craving and worry about outcomes
Not overloading or burdened by our own emotions
Love and forgive people. Let them go when they must!
We may win few, lose some, but end will be blissful
Ever be detached for never to make life miserable!

Monday, April 6, 2015

Security of life- Do we really have it?

Date:  6 April 2015

Security of life- Do we really have it?
 
A friend of mine asked me once,
What is my value, what is my worth?
I looked puzzled and asked him what?
He asked what the security in life I have is.
Bank Balance, Fixed deposits and house
Jewels, good job, cars and comforts
At that time, I had nothing.  But I was happy

Later, I slogged for years to make all that he said
But in the process, I lost the most precious asset
It’s my inner peace and utmost happiness
That’s when I felt that this security is fake
A fake guarantee that consoled that I am safe
Despite the honest truth that it is not
I am here, living in this very moment of life
This safety with security can transcend in a minute
You never know, what will happen the next moment

Security is just a breaching word of non-existent safety
Nothing guaranteed, nothing is forever in life
It is just a momentous sense of security
House to call my own, all for a social standing
Is security just measured on what I possess?
But happiness comes from contentment on whatever
I feel satisfied and whatever less that makes it
The struggle to possess more will end up possessing us
Seeking too much security is just invariably dangerous

 Were we born thinking how big we will make in life?
We have lived every moments of life without realizing it
As experts of life, dealing with the unknown, insecurities
So where is the fear of all the times, as we grow to face
Instead of believing in our effectiveness and efficiency
That we have dealt all these years of our happy lives
Sense of security is an unwanted worry to live with

Let us enjoy life and its roller-coaster ride the way it takes
Making life a happy journey to live life meaningfully
Chasing away incompleteness and emptiness
Filling the life with the pleasure of heart and happiness
Friends and family that will remain what may come
That’s the best security we can have- Believing in ourselves.
Choosing happiness and contentment over so-called security!